Do We Follow the Will or the Beneficiary Designations?
I have a brother and half-brother who are both beneficiaries of my parents? estate along with me. My parents? will stated...
Read moreThe CCRC is usually not obligated to check the will, but your sister is absolutely obligated to follow the law.
Generally, no. A Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC) is a private business. When your father moved in, he signed a residency contract.
That contract usually includes a beneficiary designation form for the entrance fee refund. This works like a life insurance policy or a payable-on-death (POD) bank account.
This is the million-dollar question. Legally, there is a difference between probate assets and nonprobate assets.
Probate assets: Anything owned solely by your father (like the house was) that passes through the will.
However, because your father had Alzheimer’s, your sister likely used a power of attorney to sign that CCRC contract. A POA has a fiduciary duty to act in the best interest of the principal (your father), not themselves. If she moved his primary asset (the house) into a contract where she named herself the sole beneficiary, she may have committed what is called “self-dealing.”
If the will says “divide the estate equally,” and she effectively removed the entire value of the estate by putting it into a contract with her name on it, you have a strong legal argument.
| Scenario | Likely Outcome |
|---|---|
| Father signed the CCRC papers while lucid | It might be considered a valid gift to her, though still contestable. |
| Sister signed the POA and named herself | This is often seen as a breach of fiduciary duty; the money should likely go back to the estate. |
| No beneficiary was named on the contract | The refund automatically goes to the estate, and she must split it with you per the will. |
Because your sister is the executor, she has a legal responsibility to settle the estate transparently. If she withholds the refund based on a verbal claim (“Dad wanted me to have it”), she is on shaky legal ground. Verbal wishes almost never override a written will.
Ask for a copy of the CCRC residency agreement and the beneficiary designation page.
Note that most CCRC refunds are considered “repaid debt” to the estate rather than a gift, meaning they usually default to the estate unless specifically directed otherwise.
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